In the U.S., a divorce* is the means by which the marriage between a couple is legally terminated. A judgment for divorce means that the parties have reached an agreement or, if the parties cannot agree, a judge has made a decision regarding the children of the marriage (custody, support, and visitation) and the couple’s financial affairs. Following a divorce, each party is free to remarry and is also able to resume a former (maiden) name.

 

Other issues to consider before the divorce is final are the needs for medical insurance or life insurance; obligations on a mortgage if one party stays in the marital home; and tax implications of property division or financial awards.

 

*The law in Illinois now uses the word "dissolution" rather than "divorce." In order to be clear and consistent, this pamphlet will refer to the process as "divorce."

 

If a couple decides to divorce, there are a number of steps they must take before the divorce can be granted. Their first step is to file a petition for divorce. In Illinois, there is no waiting period to file a petition: it can be filed as long as one of the spouses legally resides in the state on the day of the film. The actual divorce, however, can be granted only if he or she legally has resided in Illinois for 90 days before the judgment. After a petition for divorce is filed, temporary orders often will be entered into and will address maintenance (formerly called alimony), visitation, and child support; and these may remain in effect until the divorce is final.

 

The fee for filing the divorce petition is different in each county. If a person cannot afford the filing fee, a fee waiver is possible.

 

Before a judge will grant a divorce, a spouse or both spouses must prove grounds. The one commonly used is irreconcilable differences, which some people call no fault. In such a case, the spouses are required to prove to the judge’s satisfaction that there is a breakdown in the marriage, that they have been living separately for two years, that they have attempted counseling, and that all efforts to reconcile have failed. A judge can limit the period of separation to six months in certain cases.

 

Other grounds which may be used are mental cruelty, physical cruelty, habitual drunkenness or a drug habit, adultery, impotence and imprisonment.

 

Although many people ask for a no fault divorce, the term in Illinois applies only to the way money and property is divided or awarded. That means that even if one spouse actually did something that caused the divorce, his or her financial responsibilities will not be increased because of that action.

 

Although most couples who are divorcing have disagreements about certain issues, these disputes usually are resolved through negotiation, and advice from lawyers and a judge. Most divorce cases ultimately are settled by agreement, in part because going to trial can be expensive.

 

Among the issues that must be settled before the divorce can be granted are the following:

 

Property includes real estate, furniture, cars, savings accounts, stock portfolios, retirement savings and other assets. Anything that is acquired during the marriage, unless it was a gift, inherited or specifically excluded by a pre-marital agreement, is considered marital property, regardless of who earned the most money while the parties were married. Unlike some other states, Illinois law requires that all marital property, including debts, be divided "equitably", not "equally".

 

In determining what is equitable, the financial or other contribution each party had made to acquiring property is included, along with each person’s financial circumstances and the likelihood with each party will acquire assets in the future. Marital property may be divided when the judgment is rendered, or there may be provisions for payments to be made over a period of time. Whether or not one party "dissipated" marital income—that is, used money for purposes not related to the marriage—also may be an issue.

 

Some of the most painful and expensive disputes that divorcing parents have involve the custody of children or a visitation schedule. A judge may require couples who have disagreements about these issues to attend parenting programs or participate in mediation. If the judge appoints an attorney to represent a child in a contested case, the parents will be responsible for paying the fees of that attorney, as well as their own attorneys’ fees.

 

Temporary orders and/or the judgment for divorce may call for payment of child support and/or maintenance.

 

Both parents have an obligation to support the children. If one parent has custody or in most cases, residential custody, the law assumes that the residential parent is contributing to the children’s needs, and directs the other parent to pay a percentage of his/her income to the custodial parent (for example: 20% of income after mandatory deductions if there is one child, 28% if there are two children). Any deviations from these percentages are the exception. The law also requires that whenever possible, the payments for child support must come directly from the paycheck of the non-custodial parent, through payroll withholding. Except in special circumstances, the parent who has custody is able to claim the child for income tax purposes. Child support is always modifiable, however, should there be a substantial change in circumstances.

 

The obligation to pay child support continues until a child reaches 18 or graduates from high school. Both parents may also have an obligation to contribute to a child’s post-high school education.

 

Regarding maintenance, there are no percentage guidelines. Whether or not there is any award of maintenance, and if so, the amount of money and the length of time the payments will continue, depends on the circumstances of the parties.

 

 If the marriage was short in duration, if the couple had no children, if there is no real estate, and if a settlement has been reached, the spouses may be eligible for a simplified divorce procedure, which they can do themselves, quickly. In fact, no person seeking a divorce actually is required to use an attorney. If a person does plan to represent himself or herself during the proceedings, though, they should not expect the court clerks and judges to give legal advice. By law, they are unable to do so. Most people do, at least, consult with an attorney, and usually select one who is experienced in divorce law.

 

It is very important to recognize that a lawyer cannot represent both parties in a case: the lawyer can only represent the party who first saw him or her. Although quite often documents (including a separation agreement) are prepared by one lawyer, and the other party does not hire a lawyer, the fact is that the lawyer who drafted the documents is only representing one party.

 

A flat fee for a divorce is not charged unless the divorce is very simple, and both parties have agreed to everything from the outset. Instead, a retainer from the client (like a security deposit) and charge for the lawyer’s time, based on the amount of time he or she believes the divorce action will  be required. Also taken into account is the complexity of the case. Lawyers in Illinois are prohibited from charging a contingent (or percentage) fee for a divorce. Once a fee arrangement has been made, a written contract is signed by both parties.

 

With regard to actual payment of the fees, a judge may determine that one person should pay for the other person’s attorney fees, either on an interim (temporary) or final basis, if there is a great disparity in the income of the parties. Often, a judge determines whether each party has the ability to pay his or her own fees.

 

With or without the filing of a petition for dissolution of marriage, an abused party may ask the court for an Order of Protection for herself, himself or on behalf of someone who is unable to ask the court themselves. If the court finds there is a danger of abuse, it may limit the contact between the parties, or exclude one party from the home, or grant other relief. The order is for a limited time only, unless it is merged with a judgment for dissolution of the marriage.

 

If one of the parties does not adhere to the terms of judgment, the other person may have to go back to court and ask that the non-compliant party be held in contempt of court. If held in contempt, he or she may be required to: 1) do what he or she failed to do, or 2) pay for the attorney’s fees for the other person, and/or 3) pay a fine or be imprisoned.

 

(Information courtesy of the Illinios State Bar Association Public Information Pamphlets)